You may be aware that I host a weekly radio show called "The Playground of Possibilities" that airs on Mondays. Each week we play with a different topic and this week's topic was all about definition. We were playing with how addictive definition can be.  What became clear to me during the show was just how many lies I'd bought about definition and how important I'd decided it was.

One of the things that came up for me were:

Definition helps me know what how to act in a particular situation.  Is that true? On the surface it may well appear so. But truly is every situation exactly the same? For example, I facilitate Access Bars Classes. If I define these classes in a particular way does that actually allow me to follow the energy and be whatever is required to contribute the most to the people who've come to learn Bars from from me? If I define things so much so I know how to act, don't I just end up like a robot without being present with what is actually going on?

I wonder how much we try to use definition to keep us from being present with what really is going on around us?


Following the show, I spent some time getting curious about what my life would be like if I would choose to let go of all definitions. No definitions of me, other people, other things. No definitions of anything. Here's what I came up with:

  • When I am out of definition I feel calm
  • When I am out of definition I feel free to choose whatever I’d like
  • When I am out of definition I feel so much space
  • When I am out of definition I know that anything and everything is possible
  • When I am out of definition I am limitless
  • When I am out of definition money is ease for me
  • When I am out of definition I don’t judge anyone or anything, including me
  • When I am out of definition I appear weird to some people
  • When I am out of definition I get a greater awareness of what would create the most for me
  • When I am out of definition I have greater awareness of what would be fun for me
  • When I am out of definition I have access to all of me
  • When I am out of definition I’m not trying to be anything, I am everything
  • When I am out of definition all of life comes to me with ease, joy, and glory
  • When i am out of definition I don’t resist and react to anyone or anything
  • When I am out of definition I can receive from everyone and everything
  • When I am out of definition I can be the gift I truly Be
  • When I am out of definition I don’t get caught up in overthinking things
  • When I am out of definition I trust my awareness and my knowing implicitly
  • When I am out of definition I feel more happy and have more fun

In just those
few minutes of asking  "What would my life be like if I were out of definition and function beyond definition?", that was list is what I came up with.

Well buggery bollocks! Who'd have known so much freedom could exist just from choosing not to define anything or anyone?!  I wonder, what would YOUR life be like if you would let go of all the definitions, and the justifications for having those definitions? Does that feel more spacious and expansive or less spacious and expansive?

So today I'm asking the universe to show me everywhere I'm functioning from definition, and to show me what else is possible if I let go of those definitions.

 


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